As
a result of divorce and infidelity, we have seen the effects that broken
marriages have caused our children as well as society as a whole. The increase of divorce is influenced by
various reasons, one in particular is infidelity. Due to technology being unfaithful to one’s
spouse is made easy and quick. With
dating web pages and cell phones at our finger tips, email addresses, etc., we
are bombarded with temptation constantly.
In addition, the influx of acceptability regarding disloyalty has fueled
this situation to a fiery disaster. And
within this catastrophe of infidelity are the women who cheat?
Many
have voice their opinions about the reasons why men go outside their main
relationships. The oldest reason
regarding our male counter-parts betrayal is the CAT. But what drives women to join this rat
race? Although, there are several
reasons, I believe that one meticulous motive is the lack of affection! As women a lot of us grew up with the notion
that we should be treated like princesses, and although I would love to hold on
to this childhood outlook, reality has led me to believe the contrary. Some of us have been involved with men who
are not meeting our needs financially, sociably, or emotionally. In our efforts to get our needs met we are
left to confront our spouses (lovers) who in turn say that we are nagging
them. Nevertheless, out of frustration
and disappointment some of us have found comfort in the arms of another. I do agree that this decision does lead to
some type of satisfaction but only temporarily.
Bringing another party into an already sticky circumstance can only lead
to more confusion, in addition you could be possibly setting yourself up for
more heartache. Therefore if you are
feeling unfulfilled in your current relationship, I suggest that you fight hard
for a resolution. If your significant
other is not willing to work with you towards an agreeable declaration than be
a SISTER who is able to resolve her own issues, for some that could mean
cutting the ties. But no matter what by
all means be respectful to yourself and the person who lives you affect by the
decisions you make, here’s to loving relationships!
Love,
Mandy
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